We expect riots to happen in places like Egypt, Libya and Bahrain. Places where people are oppressed in one way or another. Places we see each day on our television and in our newspapers. We follow the stories of those unhappy people on Twitter and social media. It’s them. It’s not us. Good for them to stand up and fight for a better life.

And then London…

What do they riot for? What do they fight for? A television set and a laptop? A few beers and a packet of crisps? Is that what liberation of the West means? Material stuff for a material society?

But it’s not what they do and what they steal and what they burn that makes me worry. The riots are despicable. It’s wrong. It’s meaningless. It’s violence. It’s opportunistic. But it is no more despicable than the rioters burning the houses and businesses of the innocent in those far-off “exotic” places. They are in essence the same people doing these horrid acts for the same reasons.

The lost voices fed by idiot boxes.

They are fed by media who are meaningless. Television of nothing. They are told to stare at the television and absorb all this great information. Information of what? Controlled news. The voices they hear are those of posh people who have what they want. A life. But stare into the idiot box and eventually you find nothing in there. Just empty promises and posh voices. No life. No future. Just an idiot box to make more idiots.

The powerless being fed fake reality.

They are being fed lies about a better life. Watch some reality show and maybe your dream can come true. Maybe you can be somebody too. Maybe that is your way out if the lotto doesn’t do it for you. A quick fix. But the reality of these people is no better future. They are told to follow the stories of those who came from their backgrounds and who made it into this world of those who have. But eventually they see that those are the exceptions to the rule. The majority stay behind with no life. And maybe even a life cut shorter. They don’t make the news. They are just those who live on the other side of the railroad track. The people without a life. Another life lost won’t mean much. It doesn’t make for good reality television.

The hungry being fed brands and consumerism.

They are told to own the latest music system. The latest tablet. The latest sneakers. The latest hip product. Buy it and you will become one of us. And they buy. And buy. They cut corners and steal money to make that dream come alive. And then they get the product and nothing happens. They still live in those same streets. They still live those same lives. Just with cooler products. And then the money runs out and something new comes along. And they are back to where they belong. With no life and just the need for the latest gadget or hip product.

The meaningless being fed politics of change.

They are told that there are people who really care. Who cares about them and their future. That they will make a difference. They will be the difference. But the difference is really aimed at them. It’s aimed at the middle class to keep them happy. The real majority isn’t in the number of people but in the numbers in money. They are told that companies care about them. They can see it in the charity handed out daily. But none of this makes them become one of them. They don’t hire them. They don’t vote for them. They just promise the world and then turn their backs. The only change is that they are told that they are the problem. That they are lazy. That they are uneducated. That they fail to deliver on the promise of this great society. A society they were never invited to. A party for the invited only.

The social being fed social media.

They chat and they talk and they tweet. They like and they poke and they link. They are the heart of social media. They become part of the social movement. They connect with people from all over. They are the social movement in social media. But then they open their eyes and see that it’s still the same. The people following them are still those who sell them promises and the latest hip products. The social media turns into media. The social media become a me-me-me want more-more-more media. The social part of media breaks down like the social fabric of their lives.

How can we be surprised at the riots? It’s happening around us daily. In little ways. The kid get abused. The kid getting hooked on drugs. The homeless guy down the road. The unclaimed victim of a shooting. The drugs on our streets. These are all little riots happening daily.

The sad truth is that when people feel powerless they do stupid things because they see no alternative. They direct their anger at the wrong people. Not because they want to but because they know no better. No one has told them how to raise their voices. The only people telling them what to do are those same people who use them and abuse them daily. But they are not the answer.

I don’t know the answer.

All I know is that middle class people don’t riot. They have too much to lose. No revolution or riot happens from those who have something. We live in a world where the gap between those who have and those who don’t is increasing every single day. Those who have lost little during the recession. Or at least they see some hope and a way out. Those who were on the outside to start off with knows that getting in just got even harder.

The world is burning. They don’t care about tomorrow anymore. They care about today. The system is broken and no one knows how to fix it. It needs too much to fix it. We need people to buy less stuff. We need people to hire more people. We need people to live with each other and not just amongst each other. We need people to be a community. We need businesses driven by social profit. We need those who have to share in their responsibility as members of our society. We need them to embrace their role and not judge their worth on how much they own or their margins alone. We don’t need to fix the system – we need a new system.

I don’t think we will get there. I just don’t think we have it in us to build anything new anymore. Those who have don’t want to change because they are sucked into a world where they have too much to lose. We’ve been invaded by laziness. We’ve been sucked into a world that we created – flashy cars, latest gadgets, better holidays. These things make us dependent on them and we can’t get rid of the drug called “living the life”. They don’t know that we can lose it all in a flash. They don’t know that they are Mubarak but living in a world of fake freedom and liberty. It’s a fragile house we built around ourselves and we just don’t see it coming. Or we don’t want to see it coming.

We won’t get there. We’ll chip away and try to make it a better place by doing our little bits. And we’ll do it in the system we live in. It’s not the answer but we know no better.

That’s what I’ll do. Keep chipping away at trying to make our broken system a little bit better. Last a little bit longer. It’s not the answer but I have nothing else as an answer. It’s the best I can do with what I know and where I am.

In the meantime they riot because they know no better. They riot because they have not answer. They riot because they know no alternative. They riot because they don’t know what else to do. They will riot because that’s all the system knows.

I love coffee. It might just be my number one addiction. A good cup of Ethiopian Sidamo coffee. Oh, I can taste it already. But maybe I am in love with the coffee shop culture. Just lazying around, having a cup of coffee and reading the paper. The easy life. The time where I can just sit and be at peace with myself. Having a nice cuppa in a good coffee shop is one of my favourite “small things in life“.

We all have them. It could be reading a good book. Or lying in the arms of someone we love. Maybe it is hearing the laughter of kids having fun. A nice home-cooked meal prepared by loving hands. Sitting around the fire having a beer with friends and making a potjie and pap (traditional food in a black pot and a maize meal dish in South Africa). Watching your team win the World Cup in rugby or Ajax Cape Town beating Kaizer Chiefs again (sorry guys – I was a Seven Stars fan originally). Listening to my music on my iPod while commuting to and from work. Or maybe it is sharing your thoughts and worries with those who you have never met and will most likely never meet. Yes. We all have small things in life. Small things to make the big things tolerable.

The small things in life makes it possible for us to just switch off from the outside world for a little while. It creates a bit of space between you and the reality of the world out there. The world of daily struggles of life and living. It creates some white noise to block off the shouting and crying you hear when you open your ears. It gives us a little breathing space from those things we see and can’t get out of our heads. The world will drive us crazy if we sit still for a minute and think too hard. There are just too many things that are wrong in this world for one mind to handle. For one life to live. These little things in life makes life worthwhile. A stolen moment while we take a breath and recharge our batteries.

Many years ago, back in South Africa, I was enjoying such a moment when it struck me – what is the small thing in life for those who suffer? I was just sitting having a cup of good coffee. Staring out the window at nothing. A newspaper open on the table and my cigarette burning in the ashtray. But I wasn’t smoking and I wasn’t reading. I was just staring. Staring out the window and staring at nothing. My mind was blank. Taking a rest for a little while. That’s when I saw him on the other side of the window.

It was only for a split second. But it felt like a lifetime. He was just walking in the streets. I don’t know where he was going or what he was going to do – I just saw him walking past the window. I didn’t know him and still don’t know who he was. I just saw his face as he looked through the window as he walked past. It was just that split second while he appeared in the window. But it felt as if he stood there and looked at me and the coffee shop for an hour. His face burned into my memory. He eyes asked a thousand questions.

What are you doing? Why are you sitting there? Who are you people sitting there and doing nothing? It wasn’t an expression of distaste. It was just an expression of someone who could not understand what this was all about. I could see that what I doing in that coffee shop was completely foreign to him. No idea why this was my moment. No idea that this was my small thing in life. I was a stranger to him. And my actions even stranger. And it made me think. What is his small thing in life?

He was obviously from the township. I could see it in his face and in his clothes. He was neat. But he had old and worn clothes on. But he walked with pride and a little hop in his step. A sign of people who have suffered before, but who are happy and proud of the job they have today. The life they lived and the future they face. Happy times. And it made me think. What is his small things in life out there in the township? But I knew. I have been there. I have shared the moments. Just not with him.

It is the laughter of the children playing in the streets. Coming home to a warm meal and open friendly faces. Lying in the arms of a loved one. Standing around the fire with the boys while having a braai (barbecue). Watching soccer with friends and hoping Kaizer Chiefs will win this time. Playing music for the girls to dance. Sharing a beer and stories with friends in the shebeen. You know. Those other small things in life.

Yes. We might have been on different sides of the window. But we knew each other. We shared the same small things in life. We all share the same little things in life. Well, most of the time. I have my coffee. My wife has her dancing. (I have two left feet unfortunately). But it does the same for all of us. It let’s us forget about the bad times and the sorrows for a little while. It switches off the lights for just a little while. Recharging the batteries of life so we can start again tomorrow.

I have seen it everywhere I go. I look for it. I hunt for it. Just to steal a moment in their eyes. Those small things in life. Whether it is in the market in Bamako. Or the Green Frog in Lusaka. The Red Sox at Fenway. A night at the pub in London. Coffee in Paris. It’s all the same. We all have our small things in life. It’s just the faces and places that differ.

I would have liked to share a cup of Ethiopian best with that face in the window though. Have a little time to ourselves. Share a moment in life together. Share a small thing in life. And leave – ready to face the world again. Strangers. But not.

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